tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post8833378027313962728..comments2023-10-24T03:58:16.219-07:00Comments on Kinda going with the flow: SurprisesRobert Guthriehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15618840090348189477noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-88739825422837421552010-05-01T12:41:47.249-07:002010-05-01T12:41:47.249-07:00Omg, Ann, is that what it is? The Catholic backgr...Omg, Ann, is that what it is? The Catholic background...that explains everything. No, like, srsly.Jonathon Arntsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366218140886892757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-87617503573708627462010-04-30T17:12:55.682-07:002010-04-30T17:12:55.682-07:00Hi Robert! Hi everyone!
May I ask if you come fro...Hi Robert! Hi everyone!<br /><br />May I ask if you come from a CATHOLIC background?<br />I do - and it seems that you have a problem with doing what feels right and what you believe you OUGHT to be doing. I hope you don't think I'm being impertinent (well, I am actually) but I can so relate to what you talked about.<br /><br />I think that both Samuel and Elana said it in a nutshell. Try to get over that nagging doubt and just do what FEELS good....you can RATION it you know...<br /><br />HAVE A CREATIVE WEEKEND EVERYONE!Ann Marie Wraighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14524746255813452836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-37604444809201013732010-04-30T14:11:16.718-07:002010-04-30T14:11:16.718-07:00sometimes you just never really know, do you?? bes...sometimes you just never really know, do you?? best to just stick with your gut -- and you can always reopen the box after you've closed it! it's never a bad idea to say yes to a new idea.<br /><br />best of luck with everything -- i hope you have a fantastic weekend!!Taherehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03111022596822176769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-79987353161581122472010-04-29T10:28:48.325-07:002010-04-29T10:28:48.325-07:00Elana - You're so right... even while enjoying...Elana - You're so right... even while enjoying the canoe ride we have to keep paddling!Robert Guthriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15618840090348189477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-85642312179310176332010-04-29T09:36:47.505-07:002010-04-29T09:36:47.505-07:00For me, going with the flow is always a good thing...For me, going with the flow is always a good thing. You have a goal, and you're working toward it. So just enjoy the canoe ride, or whatever, and you'll get there.<br /><br />For the record, I don't think you can ever abandon the perseverance, otherwise, you'll never make it. You can't achieve something you don't try for, you know?Elana Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05877856005992028912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-82166134548858691162010-04-29T07:09:53.067-07:002010-04-29T07:09:53.067-07:00Elliot - amen!
Paula - I hear you about some ms a...Elliot - amen!<br /><br />Paula - I hear you about some ms are just for writing until the better idea strikes - that was novel #1 that, mercifully, hasn't poked its head out of the drawer for some time... and a few other novel beginnings. How about an anthology of novel beginnings?Robert Guthriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15618840090348189477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-29570118903935749222010-04-29T05:23:49.515-07:002010-04-29T05:23:49.515-07:00I think it's okay to stop one project and go w...I think it's okay to stop one project and go with one that feels right. You have to be excited about what you're writing to make it to query stage. And some ms are just for writing until the better idea strikes. Try out your new idea for a while, see how it goes, and see which you are more drawn to. Now, if you constantly find yourself stopping and switching projects - that's different. But it doesn't sound like you have that problem!Laura Paulinghttp://www.laurapauling.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-84999945065765933452010-04-28T22:55:50.627-07:002010-04-28T22:55:50.627-07:00...Samuel's point nailed it. Travel and new ex......Samuel's point nailed it. Travel and new experiences promote inspiration.Elliot Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06319271528871804399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-48951480506618952082010-04-28T21:45:36.066-07:002010-04-28T21:45:36.066-07:00Samuel, Fantastic that you're along for the jo...Samuel, Fantastic that you're along for the journey! I hear what you say about the power of new places. Sometimes as dramatic as a new city or as small as a new cafe. I spent a great 2 hours in a cafe off my regular circuit today (making it a 4 hour cafe day, which, to me, is a great day!).Robert Guthriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15618840090348189477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-70653030920003021512010-04-28T21:40:58.054-07:002010-04-28T21:40:58.054-07:00Jon - Flexie... I like that. And that for all our ...Jon - Flexie... I like that. And that for all our dams (damns) the water will flow where it flows.Robert Guthriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15618840090348189477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-26806696475499329802010-04-28T21:37:18.012-07:002010-04-28T21:37:18.012-07:00Tina - I'm also a big fan of "Fake it unt...Tina - I'm also a big fan of "Fake it until you make it." Thank you for using the word "magical". It's empowering, but I don't feel comfortable using it on something about me, so I'm grateful when someone else does. Thanks! :)Robert Guthriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15618840090348189477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-68468072626424046772010-04-28T16:13:30.342-07:002010-04-28T16:13:30.342-07:00Btw, re: Death Cab for Cutie, I knew none of that....Btw, re: Death Cab for Cutie, I knew none of that.<br /><br />Okay, lie: I totally knew all of that. I'd revoke my BG Groupie License myself if I hadn't.<br /><br />:)Jonathon Arntsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366218140886892757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-41274077229190199842010-04-27T22:16:02.589-07:002010-04-27T22:16:02.589-07:00I would totally trust your impulses, and go in the...I would totally trust your impulses, and go in their direction. So I agree with Tina and Jonathon. Sounds like you're doing a lot, going to conferences, and all, and maybe that's giving you a great new burst of energy and a new perspective on things--I always find travel reassuring and helpful that way. Thanks for sharing your thoughts--makes me want to be a part of your journey, and I like that.LARCHMONThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07484862915577134235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-74243980935572392092010-04-27T16:01:18.104-07:002010-04-27T16:01:18.104-07:00Tina and I call it flexie. Being flexible is goin...Tina and I call it flexie. Being flexible is going with the flow. Of course you may not be happy with every outcome and, in hindsight, you'll be pissed at yourself for not listening to the first thing that came to mind, but in the end, all rivers lead to the ocean and for the water, there's no going back the other way. I think I said once that we can build as many dams as we want along the way, but in the end, we still end up downstream so it's easier to let the water flow easily. Well, the point behind my rambling is that I totally need to work on this. I have been hung up on every little drawback since March and it's uber exhausting. I need someone that can get me to loosen up and just...go with the flow. Without getting high, of course.Jonathon Arntsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366218140886892757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-89077253989760810512010-04-27T14:04:34.297-07:002010-04-27T14:04:34.297-07:00I totally recognize the doubt. I hardly ever know ...I totally recognize the doubt. I hardly ever know if I'm doing the right thing. Every once in awhile I can feel it, then I know, but otherwise I like Heather's quote, I fake it 'til I make it! <br /><br />I love how this project sort of came out of the blue for you and is compelling, it certainly makes it seem right and magical to me. Keep going with it, unless the other one comes up and bangs you on the head. Then perhaps you will ahve to go back. But that may be perfect then!Tina Laurel Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04482757085942311091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-7932518497670251122010-04-27T11:58:34.312-07:002010-04-27T11:58:34.312-07:00Ann Marie - Welcome & thanks for joining!Ann Marie - Welcome & thanks for joining!Robert Guthriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15618840090348189477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-24089645224750582962010-04-27T11:56:46.688-07:002010-04-27T11:56:46.688-07:00Thank you, Heather! It feels right, but there'...Thank you, Heather! It feels right, but there's always the nagging doubt that what's good for you shouldn't feel so good. I don't believe that... but the voice is there.Robert Guthriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15618840090348189477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-50409472323335517572010-04-27T11:31:07.608-07:002010-04-27T11:31:07.608-07:00What a grounding blog post this is, Robert!! (For ...What a grounding blog post this is, Robert!! (For me--it's grounding for me!) I think that being open to opportunities is exactly what going with the flow is all about. And, it sounds like that is exactly what you are doing! I'm excited about your change of direction. Sounds fulfilling!Heather Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06699360166269376285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-11880906551888781832010-04-27T11:14:38.895-07:002010-04-27T11:14:38.895-07:00Paul - I love your idea that "just being cons...Paul - I love your idea that "just being conscious of the concept of perseverance goes a long way." Very grounding. (And you'll note that I'm back & will be reading to crit this week...)Robert Guthriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15618840090348189477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8600970586174079201.post-22097758632150511002010-04-27T10:44:20.920-07:002010-04-27T10:44:20.920-07:00Great question, Robert. I've boxed a few proje...Great question, Robert. I've boxed a few projects that I thought I would run with. I think just being conscious of the concept of perseverance goes a long way. It allows you to try new things with a goal of finishing them if they speak to you. Just the fact that you've got RR almost ready to query says a lot about your perseverance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com